Prayer for the Elderly

I was at my Mother's house this afternoon, and we were planning what we were going to do as hostesses of the older womans' circle this next Wednesday. My Mother saves articles that she likes and inspirational verses. She pulled out her files and found a beautiful prayer she will say prior to lunch this week. I will share this with you, so you can use it too if it pertains.
Lord, Thou knowest better than I know myself that I am growoing older and will someday be old. Keep me from the fatal habit of thinking I must say something on every subject and on every occasion. Release me from craving to straighten out everybody's affairs. Make me thoughtful but not moody: helpful but not bossy. With my vast store of wisdom, it seems a pity not to use it all, but Thou knowest Lord that I want a few friends at the end. Keep my mind free from the recital of endless details, give me wings to get to the point. Seal my lips on my aches and pains. They are increasing and love of rehearsing them is becoming sweeter as the years go by. I dare not ask for grace enough to enjoy the tales of other's pains, but help me to endure them with patience.

I dare not ask for improved memory, but for a growing humility and a lessening sureness when my memory seems to clash with the memories of others. Teach me the glorious lesson that occasionally I may be mistaken.

Keep me reasonably sweet; I do not want to be a saint-some of them are so hard to live with-but a sour old person is one of the crowning works of the devil. Give me the ability to see good things in unexpected places, and talents in unexpected people. And give me, O Lord, the grace to tell them so. Amen

By the way, if this prayer is appropriate for you, you may be interested in a wonderful circle that meets the 3rd Wednesday of each month in the parlor at 12:30. This circle is the Mary Martha Circle and each month 20 or more women gather for fellowship, dessert and a short program. Everyone brings a sandwich and hostesses provide the coffee, tea and dessert. This Wednesday the 19th is the next meeting. Call the church for info or a ride. Blessings, Diana